Like most people, I followed society's formula for success in life, with the expectation of finding happiness. Instead, I felt tired, overworked, and disappointed.
I was raised in an average working-class family.
I studied hard at school, then went to university where I got my degree.
I got a good job and worked hard.
I got married, bought a house, had kids and needed a bigger house...
But, I wasn't happy
I had a huge mortgage.
Work was difficult and taking up more time.
The wife wanted me to take the kids off her as soon as I got home.
The kids were unhappy and difficult to deal with.
This was not a life I wanted to live. I wasn't prepared to wait for retirement when I would finally have the time to do what I wanted. But then I wouldn't have the physical ability to do what I wanted either.
Something was very wrong here!!!
Have you ever felt this way too?
Next thing I knew my marriage was over. It had all become too much and my life now a total mess. Single, with kids, a mortgage, child support payments and a demanding job...
OMG, how did that happen!!!
I was stuck in a very dark place!!!!
I spent some time in that dark place before deciding that there had to be more to life. Others were succeeding. Others were happy. So I went searching for my happy life.
After a few false starts, I came across a guy that was teaching men how to be the best versions of themselves. The program included a mindset system to attract what you wanted into your life.
It sounded too good to be true...
I was sceptical...
But I decided that I would go for it. After all, I was in a very dark place already, what did I have to lose.
I signed up for the program and I got so much more than I ever thought I possibly would get.
It literally changed my life!!
No there wasn't a genie in a bottle that granted me untold riches. Instead, it taught me all about life. Those skills and understanding that school and university never teaches.
I changed the way I thought, the way I felt, the way I reacted.
It took some time but people around me were noticing.
My work became easier and I was coming home happier.
My friendships became stronger and more meaningful.
My kids became calmer.
I was having much deeper and more meaningful relationships.
My life became much happier and so much more fulfilling.
My life had changed dramatically. I was a positive outgoing happy person and
I was living a life that I LOVED!!!
I knew this was too good to keep to myself.
I was already sharing what I knew with anyone that would listen and they were getting results too.
So when I was given the amazing opportunity to train to become a professional coach. It was huge YES!!
After graduating from my coaching course I began spending my time building my business outside of my work hours.
Then in 2019, I left my secure job (leading a team of world-class engineers, designing electronic products).
I chose to pursue my passion of helping others through my coaching and I have never looked back!!
I am truly living a life I love!!!
I have learnt so much along my journey. Things that many people never learn in their lifetime.
And I am so grateful and passionate about sharing what I've learnt with others so they too can live their life of fulfilment, abundance, happiness and success.
A life they absolutely love!
"We know what we are, but not what we may be"